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<\/p>\nJon was a friendly freshman at the University of California, San Diego, when Navigator Tim visited the dorms looking for people to tell about Jesus and build friendships with. The two hit it off quickly, meeting once a week to read the Bible, pray, and talk. Tim introduced Jon to The Navigators and his family. Jon accepted Christ that quarter.<\/p>\n
That was also the year doctors diagnosed Jon with bipolar disorder.<\/p>\n
Jon says he has experienced bipolar\u2019s extreme highs and lows since his teens.<\/p>\n
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\u201cI remember believing one day I was the coolest, most likeable guy in my high school, and the next day thinking no one in the world loved me or wanted me,\u201d Jon says. \u201cEventually, depression became crippling, and I couldn\u2019t get out of bed my freshman year of college for days at a time. I\u2019ve had spiraling breakdowns. I have been suicidal twice in my life. I have also had spiritual and psychological euphoria where I\u2019ve felt God\u2019s love so powerfully and clearly. I am grateful for those times, but also vigilant because I can sometimes lose touch with reality. Structure, routine, and support from loved ones usually keep me grounded. Rehearsing God\u2019s Word also helps me walk through the flames.\u201d<\/p>\n
For Jon, and so many who battle the unseen, it can be hard to reach out for relationship or spiritual encouragement.<\/p>\n
\u201cThe battle is the mind, and Jesus has already won that battle, but it doesn\u2019t always feel that way,\u201d Jon says. \u201cI have experienced both immobilizing depression and dangerous mania. Spiritually, at times I have found a loving Father, patient Teacher, and Comforter who loves me unconditionally and wants the best for me. The problem is I don\u2019t always hear that Voice. At times, I have listened to the other voice that \u2018accuses the brethren,\u2019 keeps a record of all my wrongs, and levels anxiety on top of anxiety.\u201d<\/p>\n
The stigma attached to seeking counseling and medication for mental illness has dangerous potential for those who truly suffer.<\/p>\n
\u201cThe main problem is just saying \u2018I will pray for you\u2019 and not also exhorting people to get professional help,\u201d Tim says. \u201cI’m here to be a loyal friend and encourage Jon, but it\u2019s not just me that can help him. We need to ask questions, spend time, do our research, love unconditionally. Get to know the person. Ask others to help. We all need people to help us. It’s better to get help now and not just keep on putting it off.\u201d<\/p>\n
Tim, who now works with Navigators 20s, says discipling someone with mental illness is the same as discipling any other person.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe all have struggles,\u201d Tim says. \u201cIt\u2019s only different in that we always have to be ready when they need us.\u00a0I told Jon if he is ever thinking of hurting himself he can call me. At 1:00 a.m. or 3:00 a.m.\u2014it doesn’t matter. I’m here for him. Jon is a dear friend, and a part of our family. He is one of the most genuine, real, loving human beings I have ever met.\u201d<\/p>\n
Jon says Tim\u2019s intentionality and love has made a vital difference in his life.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe knocked on my dorm room door every day in college, took me out when I was depressed and socially anxious, and ate Chipotle with me,\u201d Jon says. \u201cHe told me about Christ, got me to read my Bible for the first time, helped me see my worth in God\u2019s eyes, and has never stopped being my mentor and friend. I owe my life to him and he owes his life to someone who discipled him, all the way back to Jesus first discipling the apostles. Discipleship means everything. Helping sojourners in this weary world find their way back Home.\u201d<\/p>\n
Recently, Jon has been writing devotionals to help others in their times of need\u2014especially those who also combat mental illness.<\/p>\n
\u201cI wish the Church would recognize that talking about mental health would not make as many people uncomfortable as it would comfort those who need to know they are loved,\u201d Jon says. \u201cWe flourish more when we know we are loved. We can still live exceptional lives for Christ!\u201d<\/p>\n
The war waged on the human mind has raged since Eden, but Jon and Tim cling to the One who fights for us all. On good days and bad.<\/p>\n
\u201cSuccesses and failures are part of life, but as I grow older with this illness, I try and cling closer to God each day,\u201d Jon says. \u201cI\u2019ve got to. Where else could I go? Where else do I want to go? Nowhere. I want to be close to God forever.\u201d<\/p>\n
Pray for those who are struggling with mental illness to find the care and support they need. Ask God to show you how to be a better support to those dealing with mental illness.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is available 24\/7: 1-800-273-8255<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Sometimes, Life-to-Life discipleship forges a brother-bond. Sometimes, discipleship shoulders the weight of the world.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":5567,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_helpful_pro_status":1,"_relevanssi_hide_post":"","_relevanssi_hide_content":"","_relevanssi_pin_for_all":"","_relevanssi_pin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_unpin_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_keywords":"","_relevanssi_related_include_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_exclude_ids":"","_relevanssi_related_no_append":"","_relevanssi_related_not_related":"","_relevanssi_related_posts":"","_relevanssi_noindex_reason":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6337],"tags":[1483],"mission":[69,68,150,1061],"topic":[44],"class_list":["post-5562","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ministry-impact-stories","tag-disciple","mission-navigators-20s","mission-navigators-church-ministries","mission-navigators-collegiate","mission-navigators-iedge","topic-discipleship"],"featured_image_src":"https:\/\/www.navigators.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/IMG_0496-scaled.jpg","author_info":{"display_name":"The Navigators","author_link":"https:\/\/www.navigators.org\/staff\/thenavigators\/"},"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.navigators.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5562","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.navigators.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.navigators.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.navigators.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.navigators.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5562"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.navigators.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5562\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":255327,"href":"https:\/\/www.navigators.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5562\/revisions\/255327"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.navigators.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5567"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.navigators.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5562"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.navigators.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5562"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.navigators.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5562"},{"taxonomy":"mission","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.navigators.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/mission?post=5562"},{"taxonomy":"topic","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.navigators.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic?post=5562"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}